First off, I guess I should start off by telling you what some of my beliefs (however stupid they may be) about life are.
1) Every person on this planet can be happy. You just have to find where you will be happy… when you find WHERE, the WHO will be waiting there... think about it, if you want to find a person you are happy with, shouldn’t you look in the place you are happy?
2) Building off of number 1, everyone has someone out there for them. You do, I do. Everyone does. Find them, they won’t just come.
3) Sometimes, something goes wrong in a relationship. This can range from a peaceful Goodbye to a Hell-Bent roller coaster of disaster, causing you to ask “is he/she worth it?” some people will tell you threes no answer to that question, there is…
Sometimes we all ask ourselves why things happen to us, every person on this planet does it. We fail a test, we lose our keys, we get sick, and we lose a loved one. Sometimes things can be so life changing that we start looking to answers in other places; we let Doubt rear its head and make us forget that the pain will be over soon. Instead of family, dreams, and remembering good times, we look to books, videos and anything else we can get our hands on in order to find out what, at that point, we call the truth. Sometimes when we find those answers we can feel enlightened. But at the same time it can ruin you while you try to find it.
You will see your loved ones again. They will remember and love you again oneday, no need in spending 5 months looking for the answer when you know it all along. You need to go with what you believe. Love yourself enough to.
Time for a different point, when something goes wrong between two people that cause them to part ways, sometimes peoples paths cross again.
When this happens, sometimes we can’t help but as the question, “is it worth it”. The answer was given to me by a middle aged man I met in a store one day; he said something along the lines of, “it’s never a question of if the PERSON is worth the time, effort, or love. People are always worth this. It’s a question of timing. You have to ask yourself what’s happening in your life. The timing wasn’t right the first time, if you look deeply enough, it all comes down to that… maybe the timing is right this time”
I’ve never heard it put better than that. The timing is right.

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